This world doesn't change after differentiating good or bad.
There are still the sub categories. In broader sense the good people can be
divided in two groups further. Most of the good people belong to ‘Change
Seekers’, who go to India gate to protest, to light candles; who burn off their
frustration on social websites; or some join campaigns by going one step ahead.
The second sub category plays the major role and that belongs to those people
who make the changes happen. These people are few in millions, hard to highlight.
But I appreciate some campaigns like Ring the bell, MARD, Indi Change, Bell
bajao and few more. What I wish is that these campaigns should not be stopped
after a while. The first mentioned campaign by breakthrough is donating some
money to the villages in Bihar for this blog post, hence feel good while
reading this.
Everyone has noticed that some monsters are again and again
showing their heads in little course of time. It is not like the pillars of
humanity fell in December and suddenly some found evil in them. Such things are
happening from Stone Age. Even our mythology can’t deny it. So it can be kidnapping of Sita or shameful behavior of Kauravas with Draupadi. It is a fact that some men are going crazy. Hence the
need of the hour is to find some solutions to bring violence against women to a
halt. Obviously I am not interested in designing cloths for women which cover
head to toe. We have to brainstorm and find some practical solutions here.
The major loss I found from the back to back incidents of
violence is the campaigns about saving the girl children totally stopped.
People either lacked their interest or scared. First of all we have to restart
these campaigns in full swing. It is a long term solution though. Let every boy
in India have a sister. Let them respect and love the women from childhood. The
second thing is that we should keep our next generation away from any coward
incident which can leave strains on their minds. It can be small fights, but
don’t display them. Better solution is not to have any fights. Here my point is
children grow mostly like their parents, friends, teachers and role models.
They will act like you. If you check the records of the parents of accused in
recent incidents, you will find some flaws. These devils are burning Lanka with the sparks created in their surroundings.
I won’t stop saying that education is the only way to bury the evil in us.
I had some long term solutions above. We have to think now
to save our generation. Almost everyone is demanding for the stricter laws as
correct they are. But it won’t be enough though. The mental state of the
accused was not normal while playing the coward act. Stricter laws will scare
them. But they will find their ways as always. I can see some ways, feeling
speechless though. When you don’t have a control on one side then you have to
take care of the other. Until the police, stricter laws and the above mentioned
campaigns take time to hunt down the cowards, I have a message for women and
that is ‘Be Strong’. Learn the self defense.The flaws start with the solution.
One girl cannot tackle with the higher number. So try to stay in groups, have
some trustworthy friends around with you. All my opinions or yours stop at one
point when it comes to not yet women, extremely young girl children. Those
incidents kill our thinking system. Here I will only request all the mothers
not to leave their daughters with ANYONE until they are ready with the self
defense.
So my friends, I won’t stop to think about this and expect
the same from you. There are many good things to do in life than just to vote
good answers on Quora. You better find your own answers and can write them in the
comments below. We can have a good discussion. Or you can visit www.bellbajao.org and can go
real.
It doesn't matter whether you are a male or a female, be a MARD!