This is the
story of every Indian middle class young in today’s world. When he starts to
step in the canvas shoes and join a school to cross the phase of literacy his
parents start daydreaming and imagine their child in every possible uniform.
Such fancy dress competitions come into their mind several times until their
child chooses one of them. This is not their fault. If everyone is running in a
race then it is natural to feel that our child should also take part in the race
and always try to lead it.
What
actually the child thinks. When his father drops him to the school on a scooter,
he notices only the students who come in cars and wish to come in a car one
day. The students in cars always think to come by bigger and luxurious cars.
And they follow this trend in everything they use in everyday life. Eventually they
get inducted to the disease called comparison. They take part in many
competitions and try their best to come first. Those, who fail, start to prepare
for the next and this goes on. As they grow, their dreams also show maturity.
They step into the bigger world with growing number of greedy competitors.
Many dreams
get trashed by the parents or sometimes the children themselves refuse to
follow their capabilities and they choose maximum money giving career. There
was my one friend who was preparing for IIT entrance exam. He always wanted to
become an IAS officer. Once I asked him the reason behind choosing the
different track and he simply stated that he was fulfilling his father’s dream
and he was going to study for IAS after completing his engineering. What a trap
that was!
Everyone has a clear idea about their goals by the end of the school life. Everyone decides to become a recognized doctor, engineer, businessman or at most a lawyer and get a bungalow or a sea face flat in Mumbai or luxurious one with well architecture in Gurgaon. Then buy a luxurious car, Audi Q5 in my case. They just want to throw this middle class life and want to be a millionaire in one night. But sometimes our own expectations kill our dreams.
Some fail at
very first step and the number increases as they go further. Then also they don’t
stop expecting, but reality comes on their way slowly and they start to reduce
the number of goals. They dream of a luxurious flat without architecture. The
car gets smaller. Their so called FUTURE plans become future plans. Once I met
a friend who failed in almost every competition in his life and I was keen to
know his future plans. According to him, the only way to live a luxurious life
in his situation is to sell everything he has and buy his dream car, say Audi
Q5 and spend his remaining life in it which was still impossible and virtual.
I found only
conclusion from this and that is to stop expecting and start living.
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